BE ADVISED, SOME LANGUAGE AND IDEAS MAYBE VIEWED AS OFFENSIVE
I’ve always thought that sports are the world’s greatest
reality TV-show. It’s unscripted and unpredictable. Sports are equal and fair. (Save for some funky refereeing every now and
again.) You roll a ball onto a field, or a court, you throw away your
differences, all the talking ends, the game is played and the better men, or
women, win. It’s simple. You’re completely at the mercy of your and your
teammates’ ability to overcome the other team’s desire to win. Sports has always been the place where it’s about the team you’re on, the color of your
jersey and NOT the color of your skin. They (Sports) provide an easy way for White America
to accept a black man as “one of their own”. People have a vested
interest in their team, so why wouldn’t they have a vested interest in the
players, even if some of those players were Black. That’s why sports stars of color had an easier time being accepted than they would at any other job.
Earlier this year, I had the honor of speaking with a retired Black police
officer from Jackson, Mississippi. He was an older gentleman that served as one of the first Black police officers in Jackson’s history. We talked about the struggles he and his fellow Black officers had to endure. When the Black officers tried to arrest White suspects, they were sometimes “vetoed” by White officers. If they did arrest White suspects, the
Black officers had to speak to them (the White Suspects) like they would any other law abiding
White citizen; like a child speaking to an elder. “I always found it
humiliating to have to watch my words when speaking to a criminal" the gentleman said. "With the
White officers around, we were always on eggshells. It’d always be “Boy what da
hell you just say to him” or “Boy he’s a White man and you’re still just a nigger. That badge only gets you so far”. What we got from the community was bad, but
the treatment from our fellow White officers was far worse.”
Sports are nothing like that. Teams were usually isolated from that level of hatred. When your livelihood depends on someone else’s actions, or non-actions, you tend to bond with them regardless of who they are. (When I was in the US Army, a White superior once told me about an old Army saying. "When the bullets are flying, I've never seen a nigger, or spik, or a kike in a foxhole. Just someone in the same uniform that I got on, who could save my ass.")That “us against the world” mentality always helps a team grow closer together. Teams are like families and what's the best thing about family? Family accepts you no matter what. In Mississippi, Texas, and Alabama, places where Blacks aren’t "too popular with the locals", there are plenty of White people in those same stands that cheer like crazy for Black athletes all day that wouldn’t stop for five minutes to help me fix a flat tire.
Sports are nothing like that. Teams were usually isolated from that level of hatred. When your livelihood depends on someone else’s actions, or non-actions, you tend to bond with them regardless of who they are. (When I was in the US Army, a White superior once told me about an old Army saying. "When the bullets are flying, I've never seen a nigger, or spik, or a kike in a foxhole. Just someone in the same uniform that I got on, who could save my ass.")That “us against the world” mentality always helps a team grow closer together. Teams are like families and what's the best thing about family? Family accepts you no matter what. In Mississippi, Texas, and Alabama, places where Blacks aren’t "too popular with the locals", there are plenty of White people in those same stands that cheer like crazy for Black athletes all day that wouldn’t stop for five minutes to help me fix a flat tire.
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Somethings need not be said on TV. Even if you are on First Take. Rob Parker knows that now. |
About a week or so, ESPN First Take contributor Rob Parker questioned if Washington Redskins quarterback Robert Griffin III was a “real brother” or a "cornball brother". Whether or not he was “down with the cause”. (Parker was subsequently suspended for 30 days by ESPN and forced to issue a public apology.) I’m not going to lie, I’ve had conversations like
that about some black athletes, not RG3, and none of those conversations took
place on national TV, nor should they. Questioning something like THAT about a Black person shouldn’t be discussed outside of the barbershop. Your barbershop, with people you know and people who know you. It's like calling a Black person an “Uncle Tom”. (Put it this way, I’d
rather be called a “nigger” by Rush Limbaugh than be called an “Uncle Tom” by a
random Black person on the street. I’m going to go out on a limb and say a lot
of black people feel that way.)
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Does this make you uncomfortable America? |
In sports nowadays, it’s almost career suicide to be too
“Black”. It’s good to be a "little Black" because being Black/Urban is seen as being “cool” or
“hip”, but it’s a very fine line to
walk. Only a few Blacks have the same "pull" in the Black community as they do in the White community. (Only White person I can think of that does this, Eminem.) Hip-Hop provides the perfect example of this theory. Jay-Z can
go into any "hood" in America and get just as much love as he would in any suburb in
America. Nas is equally, if not more talented in some people’s eyes, as Jay-Z
but he doesn’t have nearly the same level of overall appeal. Nas crosses the line
of what makes White people "comfortable" and he doesn’t care. Jay-Z doesn’t touch
on the same social issues plaguing the Black community that Nas willingly addresses. (That clearly keeps Jay-Z “cool” in the eyes of White America. Jay-Z's Black but not Nas "free my people" Black or Kanye "Bush hates Black people" Black.) Black athletes are forced
to walk that line. It’s why Carolina Panthers owner Jerry Richardson didn’t want
Cam Newton to get any tattoos. It’s why the NBA implemented a dress code. It's why Kevin Durant and Dwyane Wade don't have any visible tattoos. Being
too black hurts the bottom-line. The leagues know it, the owners know it and the players know it. (The tattoo thing doesn't hurt LeBron James because he's so freaking talented he could come out on the court wearing a blonde wig and he'd still be loved.)
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Things like this don't happen anymore. |
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Who RG3 decides to marry doesn't say anything more or less about him as a Black man. |
So yeah, RG3 has a White girlfriend and he may very well be a Republican, but that’s not why Rob Parker and other Black people are questioning his
“blackness”. RG3 just said he didn't want to be the best BLACK quarterback. He even said he didn't want to be labeled as a Black quarterback. Some Black people, like Parker, think HE SHOULD. (Want to be the best Black QB that is.) If he doesn't, that somehow makes him less "black"? He
didn’t/doesn't want to limit himself. He just wants to be seen as the best at what he does, regardless of the color of his skin. Professional athletes are like that though. Ali wasn’t in the ring screaming, “I’m the greatest Black boxer in the world!”.
Those guys aren’t wired that way. I’m a screenwriter. I have Black friends
that are screenwriters and we often talk about wanting to be the best black screenwriter. The level of competition in screenwriting is nothing like it is in professional sports. (It's definitely competitive, but lets just say there's more testosterone at Girl Scout meetings than there is at screenwriter meetings.)
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A lot of things come to mind before you get to "Black man" when you're thinking about Michael Jordan. |
One last story to leave you with. When I was younger, a White friend and I were trading
basketball cards. I had an extra Kareem Abdul-Jabbar card and I wanted to trade for a John Stockton card. (Not a
smart trade, but it was a rookie Stockton card and my extra Kareem card was a “final years, I shouldn’t be playing anymore” Kareem card.) He wouldn’t do
it. I jokingly said, “It’s because he's Black huh?” I laughed but my friend stayed quiet. I
asked “Really? I bet if this was a Michael Jordan card you’d do it.” "Yes" my friend said. “But Kareem was a better player
than Stockton is. Besides, Michael
Jordan is Black too” I said. “No he’s not”, he replied. “Whoa, you’re saying Michael
Jordan isn’t black?” I said shocked. “No, he’s black but... I don’t know. Michael Jordan isn’t
black, he’s just Michael Jordan, you know?” Right then and there, on that bus, I learned of the power sports can have. The power to transcend a person beyond their race. That there's a whole other level
of famous a Black person could be. But you know who else use to be talked about like that... OJ.
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